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GRIEF, MARRIAGE, DIVORCE, LOSS Feelings refueled and your spirit realigned.

MEMBERSHIP:
to provide tools to thrive through loss
to create an atmosphere free of judgment to offer our experience & education in
the grief, loss, & bereavement journey
to be a community to have healthy grief conversations to give time off to do the
Maintainance to repair a broken heart, mind, and soul



COACH:
Master Instructor & Master Life Coach
Corporate Trainer
Grief and Bereavement Counselling - ACCREDITED CERTIFICATE
Stress & Anxiety Management -ACCREDITED CERTIFICATE
Counseling Children & Adolescents - Accredited Certificate

MEDIA:
Garage Magazine 2022-
Expert Contributors bringing strategies to work through the many facets of grief ( planning, finances, perspectives, living, loving)

Grief Garage TV (Amazon Channel) 2021-
Park the vehicle of your soul and get an emotional checkup. Making Moves Beyond Loss (Radio Show) 2021-
This morning show on Praise 100.9 FM 530 AM Wednesday is just a snippet of the work they have been doing together over the last five years to make strategic moves beyond their loss and the strategies they give their clients to thrive through loss

Shifting Through Grief & Beyond Loss (workshop) 2020-
Through my own journey of grief and loss, I took ownership of my hurts and pains to be the vehicle that me to be to carry others through the pain of loss and the roads of grief. I am committed to serving as a guide to help someone(s) walk out of this dark period of their life.

The Master Relationship Mechanic Show 2016-
Our mission is to Connect relationships with Coaches that have proof proven steps to have the BEST relationships The Master Relationship Mechanic Show focuses on:
• Improving our Relationships with God
• Stepping into our Best Version of Self
• Enhancing Relationships with Others

10/22/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To every husband, wife, and child:
True faith is never meant to replace love, kindness, and presence at home. Do not sacrifice your actual family on the altar of abstract religious duty; God calls us to love the people sitting right across from us.
Prayer
Lord, give us the wisdom to balance our zeal with grace. Forgive the times we have traded patience for pious pride, or ignored our homes while chasing spiritual ideals. Heal our hearts, bring warmth back to our dinner tables, and teach us to cherish the people You placed in our care. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
The Subject: Don't Lose Your Family Trying to be Spiritual
The Danger of Misplaced Zeal
We often fall into a quiet trap. We want to be great believers, faithful leaders, or deeply devout followers. Yet, in our pursuit of higher spiritual goals, we can grow cold, rigid, or absent toward our own households.
• We attend every meeting but miss dinner with our children.
• We speak words of prophecy to strangers while offering sharp words to a spouse.
• We try to fix everyone else's soul while our own home feels like a ghost town of emotional neglect.
Love is the First Sacrament
God does not measure our devotion by how much we ignore the physical and emotional needs of our families. The New Testament reminds us that anyone who does not provide for and care for their own household has denied the faith. True spirituality is not measured in abstract terms; it is measured in how safely a child can talk to you, how gently a husband listens to his wife, and how a wife extends grace to her husband.
• For the Husbands: Lead through service, not through rules. If your spiritual discipline makes your wife feel small or your children feel judged, it is not Christ-like. Love your family the way Christ loves the church—by giving yourself for them.
• For the Wives:
Build your home with wisdom. Support and encourage your family, and refuse to let bitterness or perfectionism turn your home into a courtroom of spiritual standards.
• For the Children: Honor your mother and father, and know that you are safe to grow, make mistakes, and be loved right where you are.
Conclusion
Religion can sometimes make us look good from a distance while making us hard to live with up close. Let us turn back. Let us put down the heavy burdens of false piety and pick up the simple, messy, sacred work of loving our husbands, our wives, and our children with patience, laughter, and real presence.

10/22/2026


Note To Self:
Life will not always go the way you planned. Regardless of how intelligent, experienced or educated you are, there are things about life you will never understand. Therefore, always keep your mind open to divine surprises, divine disruptions and divine rerouting. Don't get stuck in your own ways. Always remember that, "The foolish plan of God is wiser than the wisest of human plans, and God's weakness is stronger than the greatest of human strength." (1 Corinthians 1:25) When God disrupts your plans and reroutes you through the valley of the shadow of death, do not fear and do not doubt Him. Keep trusting His unfailing hand. God says, "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,.. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8) Remember, "Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails." (Proverbs 19:21) Let go of your desire to control and let God lead. He doesn't just know the way, He is the way. Let your song be, "Guide Me O Thou GREAT JEHOVAH

10/21/2026


Note To Self:
Exodus 15:26 ~ “For I am the Lord who heals you.”
Lord, thank You for being Jehovah Rapha, the Lord our Healer. When sickness comes, when doctors have done all they can, and when circumstances seem impossible, remind us that You are not limited by what we see or what medicine can do. You are the God of miracles, restoration, and healing. Just as Jesus brought healing to those who came to Him, we come before You today with unwavering faith and great expectancy. Touch every area of our bodies that needs healing, restore our strength, renew our health, and grant us peace as we trust Your perfect will. I declare that sickness will not steal my faith, fear will not overcome my hope, and nothing is impossible with You. By faith, I receive Your healing power and trust You for complete restoration. In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen!

10/21/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children
When you hand the heavy burdens of your home, your marriage, and your children over to God and give Him the glory, He lifts the weight off your shoulders. True peace begins the moment you stop trying to carry life alone and let His strength take over.
The Opening Prayer
Heavenly Father,
We come to You today as husbands, wives, and children. We confess that we often try to carry too much on our own. We feel the weight of bills, worries, family stress, and our own weak efforts. Lord, we lay those heavy packs at Your feet right now. Forgive us for keeping the glory that belongs to You. Take our heavy loads, give us Your light yoke, and teach us how to trust You in every room of our house.
In Jesus' Name, Amen.
The Subject: The Weight of Glory
1. The Trap of Carrying It Alone
• Husbands often feel crushed by the silent pressure to provide, protect, and fix every problem without showing a crack in the armor.
• Wives often carry the invisible emotional load, holding the rhythm of the home, caring for hearts, and working endless hours.
• Children feel the heavy squeeze of school, peer pressure, and the hidden fears of a fast-moving world.
• When we try to play God in our own families, we crack under the pressure.
2. The Divine Exchange
• God makes a clear promise: "If you give me the glory, I will take the weight off you."
• Giving God the glory means stepping off the throne of your home. It means saying, "Lord, this marriage is Yours, this spouse is Yours, these children are Yours."
• When you hand Him the credit, He takes the control. You do your small human part, and He does His giant divine part.
3. Roles Reimagined in His Grace
• For Husbands: Love your wife not by your own fragile ego, but the way Christ loved the church—sacrificing your pride and letting God be your strength.
• For Wives: Respect and walk side-by-side with your husband, trusting that God holds both of your lives together.
• For Children: Obey and honor your parents, knowing that God sees your respect and guards your steps.
The Conclusion
You do not have to hold the roof up by yourself anymore. Drop the heavy bag of worry, pride, and self-reliance. Turn your eyes back to The Father, give Him the praise for the breath in your lungs and the family under your roof, and watch how lightly you can walk when God carries the weight.

10/21/2026


Note To Self:
Your destiny is not tied to those who left you. God doesn’t need anything you lost to bless you. Those who walked away, who didn’t understand you, who betrayed and ghosted you, they didn’t stop what God has for you. Let it go. Quit dwelling on it, reliving the hurt, thinking about how you can pay them back, or hoping to change their mind. God closed the door. I’m asking you to be at peace with those who have walked away. Quit trying to hold on to people who don’t want to be there. You’re not supposed to chase people to love you, accept you, believe in you. If they want to leave, let them walk. You don’t need them. This takes the pressure off. No more striving and straining, trying to convince people to be for you. That’s laboring in vain. That’s going to wear you out. Trust God to be your doorkeeper. Trust Him with your relationships.

10/21/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children:
When work and provision consume your life, you risk losing the very family you work so hard to protect. This message offers a reflection to help husbands, wives, and children to turn back toward each other and God.
The Opening Prayer
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You with tired hands and heavy hearts. We thank You for the gift of our homes, our spouses, and our children. Forgive us for trading Your presence for productivity, and for thinking that a full bank account can heal an empty room. Lord, slow our racing minds. Open our eyes to see the people sitting right across the table from us. Restore our priorities, mend our drift, and teach us how to love one another the way You love us. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
The Subject: The Trap of the Provider
1. The Good Intention That Becomes a Blindness
Every husband, wife, and parent wants to do a good job. You want a safe roof, warm food, and a secure future. That desire is natural and noble.
• Yet, slowly, provision turns into an idol.
• You begin to measure your worth by your output instead of your love.
• You look at your spouse and see a roommate; you look at your children and see a to-do list.
2. Trading Presence for Presents
Your family does not spell "love" with a paycheck. They spell it with time.
• A child does not remember the brand of shoes you bought them as clearly as they remember you sitting on the floor to listen to their day.
• A spouse does not want a partner who only shows up exhausted at the end of the day. They want your heart, your laughter, and your attention.
• When you are so busy chasing tomorrow that you miss tonight, you wake up to find that the people you were working for have grown up or grown distant without you.
3. The Call to Re-Center
God never asked you to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders alone. He is the ultimate provider (Psalm 23). Your job is to be faithful steward, yes, but first and foremost, you are a shepherd to your own household.
• Put down the phone after hours.
• Look your family in the eyes.
• Ask the hard question: "Am I gaining the world, and losing my own home?"
The Conclusion
You cannot buy back a lost evening, and you cannot replay a childhood. Tonight is the tonight to step out of the frantic race of provision and step back into the sacred circle of relationship. Turn your face toward your home. Hug your spouse, sit with your children, and remember that the greatest wealth you will ever possess is the family sitting right beside you.

10/20/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
Here's something to think about:
This message is to family members
It does not make sense to faithfully attend church and Bible study while remaining bitter, divided, or hostile toward the family members in your own home, because true faith in God is measured by how we treat the people right in front of us.
A Prayer
Heavenly Father,
We come to You confessing the gap between where our feet sit on Sunday and where our hearts live on Monday. Forgive us for making religion a routine while our homes remain cold. Soften the hardness in our chests, bite our tongues before we speak in anger, and help us realize that loving You means loving the exact family members You placed in our lives. Teach us how to reconcile, listen, and show grace under our own roof.
In Jesus' Name, Amen.
The Subject: The Gap Between the Pew and the Table
The hardest place to live out the Gospel is not across the street or across the world—it is across the kitchen table.
We can sing every hymn, memorize every verse, sit through every Bible study, and wear our Sunday best, yet still fail the simplest test of discipleship: getting along with the people who share our last name. The Bible is painfully clear about this disconnect. The Apostle John asks a blunt question that leaves no room for escape: “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen.”
When church becomes a performance we attend rather than a transformation we live out, faith turns into a disguise. We lift our hands in worship on one day and tear down our own household with sharp words, pride, or silent resentment the next.
Where does that make sense? It doesn’t.
God is not impressed by how many pews we polish if our own families are broken, lonely, or wounded by our arrogance. Real spiritual maturity does not start with how well you can quote scripture; it starts with whether you can humble yourself, swallow your pride, ask for forgiveness, and show patience to the sibling, parent, child, or spouse who knows all your flaws.
Conclusion: A Message to All Family Members
• Check the mirror first: Stop scanning your family members for their sins and start examining the bitterness or pride in your own heart.
• Faith is proven at home: If your church attendance does not make you more gentle, more forgiving, and more patient with your own blood, your practice of religion needs a reality check.
• Bridge the divide today:
Lay down the need to always be right. Take the first step toward reconciliation, even if it is awkward or unearned, and let your home feel the grace you claim to learn about every week.

10/20/2026


Note To Self:
Exodus 15:26, TLB ~ “For I am the Lord who heals you.”
Lord, my Jehovah Rapha, my Healer, thank You that You are not limited by what doctors can see or medicine can do. You are the Great Physician, and nothing is impossible for You. When sickness comes, remind me that You are still in control and that Your healing power has not changed. Father, touch every area of my body that needs healing, restore what is broken, renew my strength, and bring peace where there is fear. I thank You for the wisdom You give doctors and for Your power that reaches beyond human understanding. Today, I stand on Your Word, believing that sickness does not have the final say. You are my Healer, my Restorer, and my Deliverer! I receive Your healing grace by faith, trusting Your perfect will and timing. In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen!

10/20/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
HERE'S A THOUGHT:
🕊️ The Prayer:
A Cry for Family Clarity and Peace
Heavenly Father,
We come before You tonight lifting up every member of this family. Lord, You designed the family to be a place of safety, love, and support, but right now, confusion, misunderstandings, and division have taken root.
We ask for Your divine intervention. We pray that You silence the spirit of confusion, chaos, and strife within our households. Soften our hearts where they have become hardened. Open our ears to truly listen to one another, and guard our tongues so that we speak only life, healing, and truth.
Break down the walls of pride and miscommunication. Let Your Holy Spirit flood our hearts with patience, empathy, and forgiveness. We declare that our family will no longer be a battleground, but a sanctuary of peace.
In Your Holy And Precious Name, We Pray.
Amen.
📖 The Subject: "Ceasing the Confusion"
Scripture Focus: “For God is not the author of confusion but of peace…” — 1 Corinthians 14:33
Introduction
Family is one of life’s greatest blessings, but it can also be the source of our deepest pain. Tonight, many families are suffering from an invisible enemy: confusion. Confusion shows up as miscommunication, unresolved arguments, taking sides, assuming the worst of each other, and allowing past hurts to dictate present relationships. But we must recognize where this confusion comes from. It does not come from God.
1. Recognize the Source of Strife
When family members are constantly clashing or misunderstanding one another, we often blame each other. We point fingers at a sibling, a parent, or a spouse. But the Bible reminds us that our true battle is spiritual. Confusion is a tool used to scatter what God intended to gather. When we realize that our family members are not the enemy, we can stop fighting each other and start fighting for each other.
2. Lay Down the Need to Be "Right"
Much of the confusion in families stems from pride. We enter conversations wanting to win an argument rather than preserve a relationship. To cease the confusion, we must practice active listening. James 1:19 tells us to be "quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." When we stop listening just to replicate a counter-argument and start listening to understand, clarity returns.
3. Extend Radical Forgiveness
You cannot have a peaceful family without forgiveness. Unforgiveness acts like static on a radio—it distorts every message sent and received. It makes us view innocent words as personal attacks. To clear the air, someone has to be brave enough to say, "I forgive you," or "Please forgive me." Healing begins when we value the connection more than our grievances.
🎯 Conclusion
In conclusion, the confusion in our families stops the moment we choose love over conflict. Chaos thrives in darkness, secrecy, and pride, but it melts away in the light of truth, humility, and open communication.
Let us make a conscious decision tonight to stop participating in gossip, to stop holding onto old grudges, and to start building bridges. It only takes one person to change the atmosphere of a home. By choosing peace, extending grace, and committing to clear, loving communication, we can heal the fractures in our families and build a legacy of unity for generations to come.

10/19/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children:
The Prayer: A Cry for Restoration
Heavenly Father, Almighty Creator,
We come before You today with humbled hearts, acknowledging the weight of the message before us. You created the family to be a sanctuary of love, peace, and unity, yet You look down and see the confusion, bitterness, and distance that divides us. Lord, forgive us for letting the busyness of life and the distractions of this world tear apart what You have joined together.
We ask for Your mercy. Heal the wounds between husbands and wives, and restore the bonds between parents and children. Break the chains of silence and misunderstanding. Give us the humility to put down our distractions, the courage to make the call, and the urgency to mend our relationships before our time on this earth is through. Let Your peace rule in our homes today.
In Your Holy Name, We Pray.
Amen.
The Subject: The Ultimate Family Warfare Check
Scripture Focus: “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” (Ephesians 5:15-16)
1. The Divine Exhaustion with Disunity
Brothers and sisters, the message today is a sobering wake-up call. The Almighty Father looks at our households and sees a disturbing reality:
We are not getting along. He is weary of the endless arguments, the silent treatments, and the confusion that plagues our homes. We must remember that our time on this earth is temporary. We are not promised tomorrow. God has the power to remove us from this place we call Earth at any moment, and we must ask ourselves: If we were called home today, would we leave behind a legacy of love, or a trail of unresolved brokenness?
2. It’s Time for a Warfare Check
Ladies and gentlemen, we are in a spiritual battle for our families, and it is time for a warfare check. The enemy doesn't always attack with a loud crash; often, he attacks with a slow drift. He uses busy schedules, pride, and digital screens to isolate us from the people who matter most. A warfare check means stopping to evaluate the spiritual, emotional, and mental state of your spouse and your children.
• Husbands and wives: When was the last time you truly looked into each other's eyes and checked on each other's souls?
• Parents: Do you know the silent battles your children are fighting, or are they being raised by the screens in their hands?
3. Put Down the Phone and Take Action
The word today demands immediate, radical action. Put up the phone and start dialing some numbers. Put a hard halt on your busy schedule. We claim we don't have time, yet we have hours to give to social media, work, and entertainment. The urgency of this hour requires you to drop your pride and check on your family members before it is too late. Do not let death or sudden separation be the reason you regret what you left unsaid.
The Conclusion: A Call to Immediate Unity
In conclusion, family is the first ministry and the ultimate assignment God gave to mankind. The confusion and division we allow in our homes grieve the heart of The Almighty Father. We cannot afford to live in complacency any longer.
Let this message be the turning point for your household. Let the husbands lead in love, let the wives respond in grace, and let the children walk in honor. Disconnect from the digital world today so you can reconnect with the human souls God placed in your care. Make the call, visit the home, offer the apology, and extend the forgiveness. Check on your family today, while there is still time.

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