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to provide tools to thrive through loss
to create an atmosphere free of judgment to offer our experience & education in
the grief, loss, & bereavement journey
to be a community to have healthy grief conversations to give time off to do the
Maintainance to repair a broken heart, mind, and soul

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MEDIA:
Garage Magazine 2022-
Expert Contributors bringing strategies to work through the many facets of grief ( planning, finances, perspectives, living, loving)

Grief Garage TV (Amazon Channel) 2021-
Park the vehicle of your soul and get an emotional checkup. Making Moves Beyond Loss (Radio Show) 2021-
This morning show on Praise 100.9 FM 530 AM Wednesday is just a snippet of the work they have been doing together over the last five years to make strategic moves beyond their loss and the strategies they give their clients to thrive through loss

Shifting Through Grief & Beyond Loss (workshop) 2020-
Through my own journey of grief and loss, I took ownership of my hurts and pains to be the vehicle that me to be to carry others through the pain of loss and the roads of grief. I am committed to serving as a guide to help someone(s) walk out of this dark period of their life.

The Master Relationship Mechanic Show 2016-
Our mission is to Connect relationships with Coaches that have proof proven steps to have the BEST relationships The Master Relationship Mechanic Show focuses on:
• Improving our Relationships with God
• Stepping into our Best Version of Self
• Enhancing Relationships with Others

09/06/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives
To keep a relationship vibrant, you must actively invest in your spouse and avoid falling into routines that cause stagnation.
Subject: Breaking the Routine – Actively Investing in Your Marriage
Scripture Reference: “Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that He has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun.” – Ecclesiastes 9:9
Introduction
To all husbands and wives gathered here, think back to the early days of your relationship. Remember the excitement, the late-night conversations, the effort you put into choosing the right outfit, and the intentional plans you made just to spend an hour together. You were actively pursuing one another.
Fast forward to tonight.
For many couples, that pursuit has turned into a routine.
The routine turns into predictability, and predictability often breeds stagnation. A vibrant marriage does not happen by accident. It is the result of continuous, intentional investment.
The Danger of the Comfort Zone
In marriage, it is easy to mistake comfort for stability. While stability is a blessing, absolute comfort can lead to passivity. We begin to treat our spouse like a permanent fixture in the house—like a piece of furniture that we expect to always be there, rather than a living, breathing soul that needs care, attention, and cultivation.
Stagnation happens when we stop dating our spouse. It happens when our conversations shift from our hopes, dreams, and feelings to purely administrative logistics:
Who is picking up the groceries? Did you pay the electric bill? What time do the kids need to be at practice? When logistics replace intimacy, the relationship loses its vibrancy.
Active Investment vs. Passive Existence
God did not design marriage to be a contract of convenience; He designed it to be a covenant of companionship.
A covenant requires active investment.
To invest means to give your time, your energy, and your emotional focus, expecting that it will yield a richer relationship. It means:
Choosing curiosity over assumption: Never stop learning your spouse. Their tastes, dreams, and fears change over time. Ask them new questions.
Prioritizing quality time: If your spouse only gets the "leftovers" of your energy at the end of a long workday, the relationship will starve. Give them your best energy, not just your remaining exhaustion.
Practicing intentional appreciation: Actively look for things your spouse is doing right and voice your gratitude.
Conclusion
Husbands and wives, do not let your marriage drift into autopilot.
A ship on autopilot can maintain a course, but it cannot navigate a storm, and it certainly cannot find new joy. Wake up every day with the determination to bless, surprise, and serve your spouse. Break the routines that cause stagnation, and choose to actively love the one God has given you.
A Prayer for Husbands and Wives
Heavenly Father,
We come before You tonight to lift up every marriage represented here. We thank You for the sacred gift of holy matrimony and for the partner You have placed by our side.
Lord, forgive us for the times we have taken our spouses for granted. Forgive us for letting the busy schedules, the stress of life, and the daily grinds crowd out the love, honor, and cherish we promised before You. We confess that we have sometimes allowed stagnation to creep into our homes, settling for comfortable routines instead of vibrant connection.
We ask that You reignite the spark in our hearts tonight. Give us the wisdom to see where we have become passive, and give us the energy to actively invest in our marriage. Help us to speak words of life, kindness, and appreciation to our spouses. Teach us how to listen deeply, forgive quickly, and love selflessly, just as Christ loves the Church.
Deliver us from the trap of routine. Help us to create new moments of joy, laughter, and intimacy together. May our homes be places of peace, and may our relationships reflect Your faithful, enduring love to the world around us.
In Jesus' Name We Pray,
Amen.

09/06/2026


Note To Self:
People-Pleasing Is Not Kindness, It’s Fear Disguised as Niceness
Not every “yes” comes from love, generosity, or genuine kindness. Sometimes it comes from fear: fear of rejection, conflict, abandonment, disapproval, or being misunderstood. Many people-pleasers appear outwardly selfless, but inwardly they are exhausted, anxious, resentful, and emotionally trapped because their kindness is driven by the need to secure acceptance and control how others perceive them. True generosity flows from freedom, abundance, conviction, and love, not from emotional pressure or the fear of disappointing people. When you constantly abandon your own boundaries, convictions, peace, and well-being just to keep others comfortable, your “kindness” can quietly become a strategy for avoiding discomfort rather than an authentic expression of love.
Even Jesus, though compassionate and loving, did not say yes to everyone, meet every demand, or allow public opinion to control His decisions. Sometimes the most honest, healthy, and loving response is “no.” Maturity is realizing that you are not responsible for managing everyone’s emotions or earning your worth through endless approval
seeking. Real love gives freely without manipulation, and real peace comes when you stop living as a prisoner of people’s opinions.
As Galatians 1:10 says, “If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

09/05/2026


Note To Self:
Do Not Give Up:
What God has planned for your life will happen, even if it does not happen right away. Delay is often a test of faith. When you are about to experience your breakthrough, you will face the greatest challenges. The enemy knows that something good is about to happen to you. Therefore, keep pressing forward and believe that God is about to do something new and something good. God’s plans for you are always good. Do not lose focus; remain faithful and keep believing in God’s promises. At any moment, your circumstances could change for the better. When you believe that, you open the door for God to do amazing things in your life. “But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.” (2 Chronicles 15:7) Delay is not denial. Do not give up.

09/05/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives:
A Prayer for Devotion in Sickness and Health
Heavenly Father, Almighty God, You instituted holy matrimony as a sacred covenant, a reflection of Your unwavering love for us. Today, we lift up every husband and wife, asking for Your grace to cover their unions. Lord, we pray specifically for those walking through the heavy valleys of failing health. When physical strength fades, when minds grow weary, and when the burdens of caregiving weigh heavy, remind us of the vows made before Your altar.
Grant spouses the supernatural strength to love uncondition
ally. Pour out Your patience, endurance, and comfort upon the caregiver. Remove any temptation to retreat, despair, or abandon the covenant. Let Your perfect love cast out all fear and exhaustion. Soften our hearts to see our spouses through Your eyes, serving them with the same humility that Christ showed us. Bind these marriages tightly with cords of love that cannot be broken, and let Your presence be their constant refuge. In Your Holy Name, We Pray. Amen.
Sermon:
The Unbroken Covenant
Scripture Focus: "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends." — 1 Corinthians 13:7-8
Dearly beloved, we gather today to speak about a foundation that must stand firm when the storms of life rage the fiercest. In the beginning, The Almighty Father designed marriage not as a contract of convenience, but as a sacred, lifelong covenant. When a man and a woman stand before God, they do not promise to love only during the seasons of youth, vitality, and prosperity. They vow to love in sickness and in health.
Yet, we live in a world that tells us to seek an exit when things become difficult. When a spouse’s physical body begins to break down, when illness alters their personality, or when the weight of caregiving becomes exhausting, the world whispers that it is too hard. But hear this truth today: The Almighty Father has never given you permission to abandon your spouse.
Scripture reminds us that we are to love as Christ loves the church. Christ does not abandon us when we are broken, weak, or failing. He draws closer. In the eyes of God, your spouse is just as precious, just as valuable, and just as worthy of dignity and love in a hospital bed or a wheel
chair as they were on the day you married them.
Illness is a test of the covenant, but it is also an opportunity to display the purest form of sacrificial love. Caregiving is not a burden to escape; it is a holy ministry. When you wash, feed, comfort, and stay beside a declining spouse, you are serving Christ Himself.
God sees your silent tears, your sleepless nights, and your weary hands. He promises that His grace is sufficient for you, and His strength is made perfect in your weakness.
Do not let the enemy convince you that you have the right to walk away. Stand firm in your vows. Lean heavily on The Holy Spirit for the strength you do not possess on your own. Let your marriage be a living testament to a world watching that true love endures all things, and that a covenant made before The Almighty Father can never be broken by the trials of the flesh.

09/04/2026


Note To Self:
Ephesians 2:6-7, AMPC ~ “He raised us up together with Him…that He might clearly demonstrate through the ages to come the immeasurable, limitless, surpassing riches of His grace and unmerited favor.”I choose faith over doubt, expectancy over fear, and victory over defeat. I choose to believe that Your grace and favor are immeasurable and that You have greater things in store for me than I can imagine. Lord, multiply what You have placed in my hands. Expand my possibilities, increase my capacity, and use my life for Your glory. I choose Your thoughts of victory, increase, blessing, and abundance. I choose faith! I choose Your unlimited grace and favor! Thank You that You are opening doors, making ways, and demonstrating Your goodness in my life. I believe the best is still ahead! In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

09/04/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives:
A Prayer for Devotion in Sickness and Health
Heavenly Father, Almighty God, You instituted holy matrimony as a sacred covenant, a reflection of Your unwavering love for us. Today, we lift up every husband and wife, asking for Your grace to cover their unions. Lord, we pray specifically for those walking through the heavy valleys of failing health. When physical strength fades, when minds grow weary, and when the burdens of caregiving weigh heavy, remind us of the vows made before Your altar.
Grant spouses the supernatural strength to love uncondition
ally. Pour out Your patience, endurance, and comfort upon the caregiver. Remove any temptation to retreat, despair, or abandon the covenant. Let Your perfect love cast out all fear and exhaustion. Soften our hearts to see our spouses through Your eyes, serving them with the same humility that Christ showed us. Bind these marriages tightly with cords of love that cannot be broken, and let Your presence be their constant refuge. In Your Holy Name, We Pray. Amen.
The Subject:
The Unbroken Covenant
Scripture Focus:
"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends."
1 Corinthians 13:7-8
Dearly beloved, we gather today to speak about a foundation that must stand firm when the storms of life rage the fiercest. In the beginning, The Almighty Father designed marriage not as a contract of convenience, but as a sacred, lifelong covenant. When a man and a woman stand before God, they do not promise to love only during the seasons of youth, vitality, and prosperity. They vow to love in sickness and in health.
Yet, we live in a world that tells us to seek an exit when things become difficult. When a spouse’s physical body begins to break down, when illness alters their personality, or when the weight of caregiving becomes exhausting, the world whispers that it is too hard. But hear this truth today:
The Almighty Father has never given you permission to abandon your spouse.
Scripture reminds us that we are to love as Christ loves the church. Christ does not abandon us when we are broken, weak, or failing. He draws closer. In the eyes of God, your spouse is just as precious, just as valuable, and just as worthy of dignity and love in a hospital bed or a wheel
chair as they were on the day you married them.
Illness is a test of the covenant, but it is also an opportunity to display the purest form of sacrificial love. Caregiving is not a burden to escape; it is a holy ministry. When you wash, feed, comfort, and stay beside a declining spouse, you are serving Christ Himself.
God sees your silent tears, your sleepless nights, and your weary hands. He promises that His grace is sufficient for you, and His strength is made perfect in your weakness.
Do not let the enemy convince you that you have the right to walk away. Stand firm in your vows. Lean heavily on The Holy Spirit for the strength you do not possess on your own. Let your marriage be a living testament to a world watching that true love endures all things, and that a covenant made before The Almighty Father can never be broken by the trials of the flesh.

09/03/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives:
The Subject: Breathing Life into the Dry Places
Scripture Anchor: “And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.” – Ezekiel 36:26
Beloved, every marriage goes through seasons. There are seasons of harvest, and there are seasons of drought. Today, this message is a direct wake-up call to every husband and every wife under the sound of my voice.
It is easy to celebrate when the wine is flowing, the laughter is loud, and the vision is clear. But what happens when routine turns into coldness? What happens when the conversations become transactional, the spark fades, and you look across the room at your spouse only to realize that certain areas of your connection have grown quiet, stagnant, or completely dead?
If we are honest, many marriages today are functioning, but they are not living.
You are managing the household, paying the bills, and raising the children, but the intimacy is asleep. The shared dreams you once stayed up late talking about have been buried under the weight of disappointment, exhaustion, and daily stress.
But I came to tell you today that our God is a resurrecting God.It is time to stop settling for a survival-mode marriage. It is time to ask God to breathe fresh life into your dead areas.
Revive your creativity: Remember how you used to pursue each other? God wants to give you fresh ideas, new ways to love, and creative ways to connect.
Expand your vision:
God did not bring you together just to pay mortgages and co-exist. He has a divine assignment for your unity. It is time to dream together again.
Do not look at the dry bones of your relationship and declare it over. Look at them and prophesy life. What is dead in your marriage is not too far gone for the breath of Almighty God.
The Prayer: A Cry for ResurrectionHeavenly Father,
We come before You today lifting up every husband and every wife. Lord, You created marriage to be a living, breathing reflection of Your love, but we confess that the cares of this world have caused dry seasons to settle into our homes.
Right now, by the power of Your Holy Spirit, we ask You to blow through our marriages.
Breathe fresh life into every dead area.
Resurrect the communication that has gone cold.
Heal the unspoken hurts and disappointments.
Awaken the intimacy that has been buried by exhaustion.Pour out a double portion of fresh creativity upon every husband and wife.Give them new ways to laugh, new ways to court, and new ways to serve one another.Lord, expand their vision once again. Break the spirit of stagnation and routine. Remind them of the vows they made and the future You promised. Give them a shared kingdom purpose that goes beyond the daily grind.We speak life, restoration, and joy over every home today.
In Jesus' Mighty Name,
Amen.

09/03/2026


Note To Self:
Luke 13:16, NIV ~ “Should not this woman, a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan has kept bound for eighteen long years, be set free on the Sabbath day from what bound her?” Lord, thank You that You did not create us to live bound, defeated, ashamed, or controlled by anything that has tried to hold us captive. Chains of guilt, fear, depression, loneliness, addiction, hurt, and negative words spoken over us will not hold us any longer! You are our mighty Deliverer and Chain Breaker! In the powerful Name of Jesus, we declare that every stronghold is coming down, every burden is being lifted, and every force that has tried to hold us back must release us now! Today, I boldly declare: I am no longer bound by my past, controlled by fear, or imprisoned by shame. What tried to break me will not defeat me, and what tried to stop me will not stop God’s purpose for my life! I AM FREE! I AM DELIVERED! I AM RESTORED! I AM HEALED! I AM VICTORIOUS! I am moving forward in freedom, power, and purpose, stepping boldly into everything God has prepared for me. My chains are gone, my freedom has come, and my testimony will be:
GOD BROKE EVERY CHAIN! In Jesus’ Mighty Name, AMEN!

09/02/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives:
The Subject:
Breathing Life into the Dry Places
Scripture Anchor: “And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.” – Ezekiel 36:26
Beloved, every marriage goes through seasons. There are seasons of harvest, and there are seasons of drought. Today, this message is a direct wake-up call to every husband and every wife under the sound of my voice.
It is easy to celebrate when the wine is flowing, the laughter is loud, and the vision is clear. But what happens when routine turns into coldness? What happens when the conversations become transactional, the spark fades, and you look across the room at your spouse only to realize that certain areas of your connection have grown quiet, stagnant, or completely dead?
If we are honest, many marriages today are functioning, but they are not living.
You are managing the household, paying the bills, and raising the children, but the intimacy is asleep. The shared dreams you once stayed up late talking about have been buried under the weight of disappointment, exhaustion, and daily stress.
But I came to tell you today that our God is a resurrecting God.It is time to stop settling for a survival-mode marriage. It is time to ask God to breathe fresh life into your dead areas.
Revive your creativity: Remember how you used to pursue each other? God wants to give you fresh ideas, new ways to love, and creative ways to connect.
Expand your vision:
God did not bring you together just to pay mortgages and co-exist. He has a divine assignment for your unity. It is time to dream together again.
Do not look at the dry bones of your relationship and declare it over. Look at them and prophesy life. What is dead in your marriage is not too far gone for the breath of Almighty God.
The Prayer:
A Cry for ResurrectionHeavenly Father,
We come before You today lifting up every husband and every wife. Lord, You created marriage to be a living, breathing reflection of Your love, but we confess that the cares of this world have caused dry seasons to settle into our homes.
Right now, by the power of Your Holy Spirit, we ask You to blow through our marriages.
Breathe fresh life into every dead area.
Resurrect the communication that has gone cold.
Heal the unspoken hurts and disappointments.
Awaken the intimacy that has been buried by exhaustion.Pour out a double portion of fresh creativity upon every husband and wife.Give them new ways to laugh, new ways to court, and new ways to serve one another.Lord, expand their vision once again. Break the spirit of stagnation and routine. Remind them of the vows they made and the future You promised. Give them a shared kingdom purpose that goes beyond the daily grind.We speak life, restoration, and joy over every home today.
In Jesus' Mighty Name,
Amen.

09/02/2026


Note To Self:
Psalm 35:27, NKJV ~ “…Let them say continually, ‘Let the Lord be magnified, who has pleasure in the prosperity of His servant.’”
Lord, even when it feels like I’m living in the land of “Barely Enough,” I will not lose hope, because I know You have not forgotten about me. You see every need, every bill, every financial burden, and every situation that seems impossible. Nothing is hidden from You. Father, I thank You that You take pleasure in the prosperity and well-being of Your servant. I ask You today for a financial breakthrough. Open doors that no one can shut. Release new opportunities, increase, favor, unexpected blessings, and resources into my life. Make a way where I cannot see a way, and provide for me beyond what I could ask or imagine. Lord, break every cycle of lack, struggle, insufficiency, and barely making it. Give me wisdom to manage what You place in my hands and bless the work of my hands. Let debts be reduced, bills be paid, needs be met, and financial burdens be lifted. Bring the right opportunities and the right people into my life at the right time. I declare by faith that “Barely Enough” is not my final destination! You are leading me into greater provision, abundance, and overflow—not just so that I can be blessed, but so that I can be a blessing to others. Thank You for what You have already done, for what You are doing right now, and for the financial breakthrough that is on the way. Let my life magnify You as You show Yourself faithful in every area, including my finances. In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen.

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