21/01/2024
Relevant Questions You Should Ask During Courtship that May Be seen As Not Important!
1. Ask your proposed partner if they SNORE while sleeping😴. Don't look at me that way, it's not bad to snore but you've to know if they do, so you can prepare yourself to enjoy and endure their snoring nature forever. Romantic snoring☺😁
2. Ask them if they observe Morning devotion, so you don't end up praying alone or them telling you that they do their devotion in their heart or workplace. Two of you praying together should be the spiritual goal.
3. Ask them if they can sweep, wash, cook, and iron. It might look like they can do it till you ask them and then you will know that they can't or aren't so good at doing it. Then you will have to be doing it ALONE. That's stressing and unprepared of you, you know?
4. Ask them if they prefer sleeping with the light on or off. So if you're the opposite of them, you will start adjusting your body system to that.
5. Ask them how they react when they are angry. Are they sensitive to jokes, etc? Woooh!! Mek person no tell you "Am I your mate?", 'Do you who am I!"🙄 or break plates on top of your head😒. É jo o!
6. Ask them and make deep inquiries too to know if they are married or have been married before or probably have a child out of wedlock. So you don't wake up one day to the biggest shock of your life and stories that keep touching the heart.
7. Ask them how many times they eat surplus and stored food. Except you want to be cooking every day because your partner no gree eat one particular food twice abi thrice.
8. Ask them where they start un******ng after work🌝. Some partners, start from the sitting room. You will find one leg of his sock in the parlour, their bra or tie in the kitchen and their shirt or trouser on the bedroom floor.
9. Ask them if they prefer sleeping on an arranged or scattered bed. Yes, ask oo. Some partners can comfortably sleep on a scattered bed with their dirty clothes on top and they just won't mind😏. But won't you mind? Abi you fit follow them sleep liadat?🌝 Na liadat fight dey start too😌.
10. Ask them where their source of income is coming from. The kind of work they do. Is there any Plan B or C in case things don't go as you both planned? Ask ooo. You need money to run the affairs of your home.
11. Lastly, for now, Ask them how they squeeze their toothpaste, from the button abi from the top? Asks oo. Some marriages have been dissolved because of this matter🤦🏽♀️.
IF they are not virgins! Ask about their s*xual life. I won't go deeper on this one but just ask them how many times you can be having s*x. I know some s*x periods could be so impromptu. Don't look at me that way, I read🙄, for enlightenment's sake because there's nothing wrong with knowing this. Let them know how far your body can manage and respond to the s*x moment. (If already have an experience before salvation) If both of you are virgins Woooh asks oo🙃.....AND don't neglect to ask them about their purpose and vision in life. A vision less home is hopeless.
If we take time to observe, we will know that sometimes LITTLE and unnecessary issues cause big misunderstandings in some homes.
No question is more or less important during courtship. Courtship is the BEST time to know a bit of everything about your partner, so you can prepare yourself enough for the outcome.
Here's me praying for you and me today, May our marriage truly make us happy.
May we not regret the choice of partner we finally get to settle with. May our children emulate our goodly and godly lifestyle. May our home be a beautiful one. May our home be filled with Love, Security and Trust.
May God be the centre of our home. Above all, may there be peace, both internally and externally and May God grant all of us our positive heart desires, now and forevermore!
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