07/08/2019
Relationship Tips
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Don't dress shabby, even if you don't have expensive clothes, dress well. Always look presentable.
Don't be extremely possessive: don't monitor a lady (checking her phone messages, calls, her where abouts),you are putting yourself under unnecessary pressure, stop it.
Work on friendship first, when friendship is sorted he/she will eventually see no other friendship that is relevant.
Appreciate a lady's effort to please you. (e.g. She buys a tie; don't say I don't wear ties or I don't like the color)
Hygiene is vital: shave your beards, don't be like a terrorist. Even Joseph when he came out of prison he shaved before going before Pharoah. Smell well.
Don't go for a guy/lady because of his/her image and status, you may regret it. Go for love.
Don't be moved by physical appearance: true handsomeness/beauty is the character.
Be committed to self development and expanding your horizon. Work towards progress.
Never rebuke a lady in public, she may see it as an embarrassment. Call her to a corner or private place and tell her. Woman are emotional in nature; use the right words on them.
Check the character before committing yourself into a relationship. Don't be in a hurry to commit or talk about marriage. Make both of you has similar goals and good character, if you notice you can't cope in a relationship, leave such relationship. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
Don't marry for s*x: s*x can't solve martial, marry for love, commitment and achieving same goal.
Be goal oriented.