05/01/2026
STOP BLAMING DRIVING INSTRUCTORS FOR TAILGATING
This appears in the comments every time tailgating is mentioned.
“Bad instructors.”
“They do not teach distance anymore.”
“Learners are never told this.”
That simply is not true.
Most instructors teach following distance properly.
Time gaps.
Stopping distances.
Why space equals thinking time, not just braking distance.
I teach it.
So do many others.
When many of us learned to drive, following distance was taught as a safety principle, not a test trick.
Even without motorway lessons, the importance of space was drilled in early.
The real problem does not start during lessons.
It starts after the test.
Once a licence is passed, there is no reinforcement.
No refresher culture.
No expectation to maintain standards.
No correction until there is a collision, penalty points, or worse.
Motorway driving makes this worse.
Most drivers never receive professional motorway tuition.
They learn motorway behaviour by imitation, not instruction.
Drivers copy what they see around them.
If traffic sits a car length apart, that becomes normal.
If tailgating is everywhere, it gets copied and accepted.
Pressure also changed behaviour.
Modern driving comes with congestion, time pressure, and impatience.
People feel late even when they are not.
That pressure shortens tempers and distances.
Tailgating becomes a way to express frustration, not to make progress.
It feels active, but it achieves nothing except removing safety margins.
Technology adds false confidence.
Modern cars brake better and feel more stable.
That comfort can trick drivers into believing they can safely drive closer.
Physics has not changed.
Reaction times have not improved.
Stopping distances still depend on speed, space, and attention.
The rules have not changed either.
Rule 126 of the Highway Code is still very clear about leaving enough distance to stop safely.
What changed is how often it is reinforced.
This is not about instructors failing.
This is about a system that treats driving as a one time qualification instead of a lifelong skill.
Tailgating is rarely ignorance.
Most drivers know it is wrong.
It is impatience.
Habit.
Pressure.
Space is not politeness.
It is control.
If we want higher standards on the road, we need to stop blaming the people who teach correctly and start looking at what happens when nobody is checking anymore.
Sheena Ahmed