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Created To Be His Help Meet, Journaling Journey in Marriage, San Jose, CA (2026)

12/23/2025

12/23/2025

01/07/2021

In this season of marriage and Chapter 1 of this book let’s ask ourselves some questions. Does your hubs heart safely trust you? When your hubs heart trusts you doesn’t marriage feel renewed? Some of you have a marriage that the first couple of years he automatically trusts in you. This type of man comes healthy, mature and wise. He usually an older man. Their are also marriages that he doesn’t trust you until you melt his heart. In 1 Cor 13 God talk about love but you see in His description He mentions “long suffering”. If you are suffering for your husband to trust you with his heart then continue to pray. It can take years honestly because ya gotta go through something that God humbles hubs and God positions you with life skills to help your husband in a way that you become very valuable, like God says you are worth more then rubies. This season can feel long & full of tears but God will wash away your tears & the Holy Spirit comforts you, like always. I advise that during this season of “long suffering” that you do you and take counseling get through this & so that you don’t become stuck in this season. This season can make a woman bitter. You don’t want to become a bitter woman. If you are that bitter woman & God has changed seasons in your marriage where hubs now trusts you then you don’t want to be bitter. You want to rejoice. You have made it. Praise God!

I’m very thankful that my children have some amazing parents. I’m truly blessed to have such an amazing wife (in the Nigerian culture the step-mom is called our wife & your ex is our husband) and husbands. Co-parenting is very healthy for the entire family. In co-parenting everyone’s role is very important. If you have not come to a season that co-parenting is happening then always keep them in your prayers. You may not speak through the flesh but you can speak to God to change their hearts & to send a nice message to their heart spiritually. Always keep an open mind. I look forward to the day to teach my sons about God, since they obey they parents I know they will obey God one day.
Your ordained purpose is for your husband. Why you think you notice every annoying thing he does? Lol 🥀